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Elmi Bodhari The King Of Love
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In this first paragraph, I should introduce myself, my activities, my hopes, or my reason for Contacting You and need to have our arealtionship become change into marriage as soos as possible but iam starting my speach in the name of allah most compacious,most mercefull. Secondly iam greeting you the islamic greeting  I can use the subheadings below to give detailed introductions, or I can just summarize the introduction here. I could also give visitors tips for navigating my site--what's located under each button, only my big aim is that iam looking for marriage with someone who is muslim; allah azza wajal said{ which means"And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.(Qur'an 30:210). also our prophet mohammed peace and mercy be upon him said''[Awoman is amrried for four things,i.e.;her wealthy,her family status, her beauty and religion.so you should marry the religious woman{other wise}you will be alosers]''. Elmi Bodhari; The King of Love It was sometime before 1960, while Elmi Bodhari was working at a bakery shop in the port city of Berbera. In late afternoon a young and beautiful lady named Hoddan bought bread from the store that employed him. From that day on, Elmi was mesmerized by the natural beauty and elegancy that God had given to Hoddan. What followed that afternoon to the end of his life became the most famous love story in the continent of Africa. Initially Elmi faced two difficulties – not only was Hoddan's family much better off financially, he also faced the cultural taboo that surrounded the concept of love. Both were formidable challenges for him to overcome. One could only imagine his anguish of trying to convince a society that regarded love as a disgrace and shameful thing. His family, including his relatives, tried to convince him to stop bringing shame on the family but to no avail. His heart was attached to Hoddan and no matter what people tried to do, he demonstrated his devotion to Hoddan through countless romantic poems. At one point a dozen beautiful girls from his tribe came to persuade him to forget about Hoddan and settle for on of them. Elmi's response was one of the most beautiful love poems in the history of the Somali people: IF THE EYE CAN CAPTURE SOMETHING (beauty) AND THAT COULD CALM DOWN SOMEBDY (somebody's heart) OR EVER A HUMAN COULD BE STISFIED WITH BAEUTY I HAVE SEEN KHADRA’S (Hoddan's) SHOULDERS, NECK, AND FACE HOWEVER, I HAVE STRIKEN BY LOVE THAT DEVESTED MY LIFE LADIES, YOU HAVE POKED THE PART (the heart) THAT WAS IN PAIN YOU HAVE HURT THE HEART THAT I WAS TRYING TO HEEL MY UPPER BODY AND HANDS ARE SHIVERING (due to the painful effect of love) THE NAKED BREAST HURTS MY FEELING GOD FORBIDS TO SEND YOU TO DISTRUCTION, I ASK YOU TO COVER YOUR CHEST Hoddan did not show affection towards him but perhaps due to pressure from her family she was unwilling to deal with his passion for her - a hardship of love that isolated him from society. After learning that Elmi was too depressed from his infatuation of her and it was taking a physical toll on him, she paid a short visit to his place. Though she never showed feeling for him before, her visit to his residence in the last few days of his lives tells us otherwise. When she arrived, Elmi's roommate and best friend Muse informed her Elmi had not slept for several days until today. Hoddan didn't want to disturb Elmie, so she told Muse to tell Elmi that she was here to see him. Upon waking late in the afternoon, Elmi was informed the woman that he loved the most was here to see him and she wished him the best. In utter disbelieve and regretful for missing her visit, Elmi placed his hands on his head and said SLEEPING DURING THE DAY, IS NOT A WISE IDEA UNLESS I AM CURSSED, WHY DID I MISS HODDAN Unlike the story of Romeo and Juliet, the story of Elmi and Hoddan is based on real events. Its beginning and finale have been passed from generation to generation and a book was written about it sometime after Elim's death. I have heard many times in the past our ladies complaining about that Somali men don't know how to love, and I think what they meant by that is; we are such devoted lovers, and we don't recover easily when we fall for them - instead we die. The Poor Man and the Beutifull Lady time passed and the winter came.one evening afarmer was sitting alone in his little house. outside snow was falling .white snow covered the field.the farmer was eating some rise,and some careals. suddenly there was aknock on the door.''who is that?''the farmer asked himself ''who is outside in this bad weather?''.quickly he got up and he went to the door. when he opened the door,the farmer saw alovely young women.she was dressed in white scraft over her head. She looked the farmer and smiled. ''oh sir''she said iam lost.its so cold and dark can i come in to your house? please come in dear lady''said the farmer.''iam apoor man and and i can't give u much,but i will give u what i have''. the farmer give the young lady some rise and some careals,and then they both drank some hot tea.later the farmer give the young lady some of his cloths,''please sleap on these''he said. the next morning, the snow was still falling.the farmer spoke to the young lady''u can't travel today'' ''you could stay here with me''the farmer said. he was suprised at his own words but he continued to speak.''you could stay here and marry me!'' '' please be my wife" i don't have very much now ,but i would work hard'' the farmer was akind man.the girl liked him very much'' i will marry u''she said WHY MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT? I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. FOR EXAMPLE: One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me." I said "WHAT??!! What was that?!" So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear... "You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man." She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?" Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep. The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We went onto the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you...she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier." I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it." Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled 'WHAT?' I then said "honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?" Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either... but at least that bitch knows I'm smarter than he |
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